Rope Jam | Partner Tying - Beginner Friendly
Thu Mar 28, 19:00 - Thu Mar 28, 21:00
Embodiment Rope Space, Salt River
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Partner Tying - Beginner Friendly
Bondage can be the practice of consensual and recreational play that involves tying, restraining, or binding a person. In our case, the material of choice would be rope. We've had self-tie jams and other wonderfully themed jams - but for this jam, we will be focussing on tying as partners. The intention will be communication, negotiation, and exploring each other using rope as the medium. Partnered tying can also be platonic in nature and can focus on connecting playfully as friends, creating a space of calm and meditation, or even allowing each other a release of emotion whilst being witnessed. Whatever your intention may be, rope can be used to speak and to listen, and that is what being partners is all about.
@rope.fu will be holding space for the first hour of the jam and will take you through some partnered tying practices. In the second half of this jam the floor will be open to putting into action what you've learned or to connect with our team to find out more.
Description
Embodiment Rope Space is a welcoming and safe(r) space for members of the LGBTQIA+ community and allies. We practice rope communally and host occasional workshops for upskilling the community. Rope is never safe, there are only ways to do it more safely.
Absolute beginners and experienced rope practitioners are welcome to this jam. Rope Jams are spaces where you can come and practice rope tying in a peer-to-peer setting. Singles, couples, throuples, etc. are all welcome. Switching is allowed and encouraged. If you do not have a partner(s) to attend with, you may have to self-tie or enquire with other participants to pair up. Class rope will be available for use for free on the day if you do not have your own rope.
Events start promptly at 19:00. Please DM us via Instagram if you are running late. Doors open at 18:40 and are closed at 19:10. We will be strict about this because late-coming can be very disruptive to those in the space. Pre-booking is essential (cash on the night is available by arrangement via Instagram DM). Please have your tickets ready to be scanned on arrival.
We have limited treated rope from Sudo Jute for sale and safety shears. Non-alcoholic drinks (coke, water, tea, coffee) will also be for sale.
Come dressed however you like - comfy, sexy, sporty, fetish. As long as your booty is covered, you are welcome here.
About Us
Embodiment Rope Space is the love child of a group of volunteers from different walks of life coming together to actualize something we think the world needs: a queer safe(r) space for exploring kink as a healing, connective force.
You can follow us on Instagram here:
@faeriebunnyrope (she/her)
@rope.fu (he/him)
@hotsqueak (they/them)
@wavybeanbaby (she/her)
@gr_en.trapta (they/them)
@creaturale (they/them)
@charliefrench_za (she/her)
@desirelinesbondage (she/they)
@vroeteldier.kinbaku (she/they)
Rules
- Don’t be late.
- Respect the space. Leave no trace - whatever you bring, take it back with you.
- Ego has no place here. Learn and share with humility.
- Ask for people’s pronouns and use the ones you are given.
- No shoes. Keep underwear on at public events. Nipples may be free.
- Do not make unsolicited comments about anyone else's body.
- Do not take any photos of anyone in attendance without consent.
- Do not post photos without the consent of EVERYONE in the photo.
- Do not reveal the identity of anyone you meet in the space once you leave. Many people prefer anonymity.
- Be mindful of making noise in the space when others are tying around you, this includes loud talking and laughing.
- Be discrete when moving through other parts of the premises. Clothes are optional in the space but not outside the door.
- Please stay home if you are feeling unwell.
- This is a sober space. Please do not use any recreational drugs or alcohol before coming or while on site.
- Acknowledge and accept that you are participating in high-risk behaviour at your own risk.
- No suspension is allowed unless you have been given permission, please message us beforehand via Instagram DM to tell us about the suspension you would like to do
FAQ
What is Shibari/Kinbaku/Bondage?
The art of binding the body of a consenting adult.
Is rope always sexual?
Rope has many benefits and practitioners outside of the sexual paradigm. For some, it is about pushing their bodies not unlike engaging in strenuous exercise or extreme sports. For some, it is a way to reclaim their agency after trauma. For some, it is a way to experience a connection with others without the scripts and expectations associated with genital contact. As long as what you are doing is consensual and intentional, we consider it healthy and valid.
What should I wear?
This is a friendly learning environment, not a sexual one, so crotches are to remain covered. Other than that, you are free to wear whatever you like. We find that it is easier to tie with minimal clothing or clothing that you can move in easily (leggings, shorts, etc.).
Do I need to bring my own rope?
We have class rope available on the day - which is free to use - supplied by Sudo Jute. All our class rope is made from jute, is preconditioned, and well broken in. We do not allow crotch rope or any bodily fluids on our class rope to keep our rope sanitary and in good working condition. We do have Sudo Jute rope on sale if you want your own to take home.
Do I need a partner?
We encourage all jam participants, regardless of skill level, to practice and experience rope through the act of self-tying. Some of our jams and workshops may require participants to come partnered and will be outlined as such in the event description itself. For this jam you are welcome to come solo. We do not pair up jam participants. This means that you may find someone on the night who will be willing to partner with you after walking through some pre-tying negotiation, but this is not a guarantee. If you are unpartnered, we encourage participants to watch, chat with our team and self-tie.